Nov 6

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11/6/2011 3:00 PM 

One reason why some guys find themselves labeled with a permanent ‘friend tag’ is because they are too nice, accommodating and available to their female friends. You have to learn how to trigger feelings of attraction in a woman you like. There is a different feeling that is aroused in a woman when she is in the presence of a guy she is attracted to compared to a guy she would like to be or considers a friend. It is your job to learn how to convert those feelings of friendship into feelings of attraction.

The question then becomes how do you trigger these feelings of attraction? Well, in this article, I will provide 3 tips you should execute to escalate the friendship to a relationship.

3 Tips to Escalate a Friendship to a Relationship

1. Don’t be Always Available
When you think of a friend, you consider someone who will always be there. But when you think about the kind of woman you feel attraction for, it’s very likely she’s not your next door neighbor who is always available.
Most women say they feel physically attracted to a celebrity like Menzi Ngubane but the reality is about none or maybe 98% of those women will never have the opportunity to have a good conversation with him. As human beings, we sometimes desire and crave for that which is not so easily obtainable. You have to put yourself in a position where she begins to look forward to and cherish the few moments she spends with you.

2. Start Flirting with Her
This could be with your body language, the things you say to her and the way you look at her. Don’t be afraid to tease her and make her feel awkward with some of the statements you make. This will show her another side of you and will begin to fan the flames of attraction in her.

3. Be Ready for Disappointment
Be prepared for rejection from the start but don’t let it hinder you making your move. It’s very possible that she might not just be ready to escalate the friendship to a relationship. Still you’ve sown the seeds and when the time is right, she’ll open up to you.
Escalating a friendship to a relationship can be achieved. You are in a prime position to know what floats her boat and can use this to your advantage. I would like to share more tips on dating with you.

Share your thoughts and post on this blog and to all the males out there who find themselves in this predicament please watch the movie “MADE OF HONOUR”